Ummmm... probably most of the married men I've met have told me "DON'T GET MARRIED!"

Now... their reasons for it may not have been great. And an awful lot of it sounds like a bunch of "manosphere" cringe stuff (some of which does have some basis in reality, but they've distilled that into an ugly, hateful thing).

But I can assure you, as a man, nearly every married (or formerly married) man in my life told me to not get married, and most of the men I've known in long term relationships without a marriage didn't seem particularly enthused by it either.

J.Ja